Don’t even try to win over the haters, remember our 80/20 rule…..
H – Having
A – Anger
T – Towards
E – Everyone
S – Success
A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends
all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall. They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever good enough!
A hater can be anyone, a family member, a friend, a colleague, a teacher, a boss, or some random person you meet on the street or the Internet. People who were friends forever can suddenly be haters. You need to HAVE the tools to deal with it since they can be found everywhere–at home, at school, at work place. Every one of us, at some point in our lives, confronts a hater. The question that naturally arises at this point is, how can one deal with haters? In order to answer this question, we must first find out what makes a hater ‘a hater’.
Truth is haters don’t hate you…THEY HATE THEMSELVES! They only vent it on you because you are all that they want to be, they are not comfortable in their own skin. Therefore they project outwards negative energy, they are upset because you look like what they want to look like, you are loved by those they are dying to get their attention, they can’t carry themselves like you do.
- It’s best to Ignore
- Be Super happy, it kills them!
- While they hate, you live, laugh, love !
- Having haters is one of the signs of success. This should spur you to greater heights knowing your admirers in haters skin are watching.
- It’s not your job to stop them from talking behind you but it’s your job not to let it affect you.
- Never forget that weak people revenge, strong people forgive but intelligent people ignore! Which are you?
- Just keep keeping it real…they may one day come to their senses.
If you know any Hater, don’t worry about Him/Her, it’s not your problem,
it’s theirs.. Just pray for them, that their life can be as
fulfilled as yours! Watch out for Haters…BUT most of all don’t become a HATER!
Think about this as you go about your daily business.
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