When you start out on your healing journey it will feel like very little is happening

Keep going.


You take that step to respond to a message, book a phone call, write an email, decide that now is the time for change. And then you’ll feel the fears rising – do I really want to do this, what if I put all this work in and it doesn’t work, what if I remain the same or worse still what if I end up in a worse place, all the ‘what if’s’ spin around your head? You’ll feel like giving up before you’ve even started.


Keep going.


You start your journey, you’ve taken the step but boy is it hard. You start to think along these lines – Surely there’s an easier way, there must be a way to just ‘feel better’, it has to be quicker than this, why is it such hard work, why can’t I just be happy for heaven’s sake, what is wrong with me, why does everyone else appear to get it, I’m fed up with reading about other’s successes and remain in the same place, what’s wrong with me? You’ll feel like giving up.


Keep going.


Slowly, very slowly you start to feel the change, just a few glimpses of light appear now and again. You start to notice that you are reacting differently towards others, you feel slightly better inside, you start to see life in a slightly better light, you feel a tiny bit lighter and there is a glimmer of hope. But the magical experience you so want feels like a million miles away. It’s so hard, you’ll still feel like giving up.


Keep going.


You make a small breakthrough, you actually start to like yourself that tiny bit, you actually start to do the work and it seems a little less like ‘hard work’, it feels almost part of you. You’re not giving up, you know that now.


Keep going.


It feels surreal, this new way of thinking, it doesn’t feel quite right, these people are saying the same old things and you’re not the usual angry, reactive self……so you question it? Here’s the key, don’t question it, go with this good feeling and you’ll get more, you’re transforming.


Keep going.


And it all starts to come together. You’re now used to the rollercoaster ride of emotions you go through and start to relax a bit. You start to trust that it’s working, you can actually do it. Wow! You have a system and a plan and it’s working! You do feel different, very different. It’s like being in a new movie.


Keep going.


I’ve been here, I’ve been in the depths of despair, where I believed at one point that life couldn’t go on, I couldn’t go on. But there was also a little voice inside of me that said, ‘There has to be another way’. I’m not special, I’m no different to anyone else, but one thing to draw on is tenacity. That keeps you going.


The difference that makes the difference is tenacity.


Keep going.


It might feel like nothing is happening for the longest time. But it does, when you keep going, it really does, a pure cellular transformation is totally possible for ANYONE willing to put in the work. Life isn’t easy for me now, life is unbelievably amazing, full of love and magic.


The key is to ‘KEEP GOING’.


Today, take a different step – ask for help, don’t be alone, don’t compare your budding seed to someone else’s blooming flower and whatever you do – KEEP GOING.